A 19-year-old girl has been widely criticized by netizens after her WhatsApp chat with a man went viral online, revealing details of her expectations from a potential relationship.
The WhatsApp conversation, which quickly gained attention, shows the young woman explicitly requesting various forms of financial and emotional support in exchange for dating the man. She seems to be seeking a relationship where she is pampered and taken care of, asking for gifts, money, and regular attention from her partner.
In the chat, the girl explains her desire for a relationship where she would be treated with the utmost care, saying, “Relationship wey I dey find na person wey go dey nurse me like him pikin. Babe I got you this. Babe check your account. Babe I get you that. Babe are you hungry?”
She continues, “Babe take it, use it to buy chocolate. Use it to buy ice cream. Babe do you like it? Unexpected gift, money, plenty things. Wetin I still con dey find up and down? But my wahala too much. You fit give me in the morning make I still ask again for night.”
Her demands have sparked an intense debate on social media, with many users accusing her of using relationships solely as a means to secure financial stability, rather than building meaningful emotional connections. Critics have pointed out that her actions reflect a materialistic approach to relationships.
Lenin Park commented: “Once you have a disappearing message turned on, it’s a red flag.”
Sattar shared his own experience, stating: “Bro, nah so I carry one girl reach there for snap too. I let ham know say if she continue like this, to see person wey go marry her go hard. Even if she see, dem go divorce under a year.”
Leckzy added: “Na does snap girl worst imagine I get to know one Werey for that app, we exchanged contact just to talk to her normal n not like snap girls, d second day she need money to eat stylishly I wanted to deny but playing along I gave her 5k, d 3rd day she’s sad ask why?”
Horlah highlighted a similar situation, saying: “A 19 years old girl in our school chat dey boast of 60k skincare a month. Person wey no dey work oo. Na some guys dey cause am.”
This is a 19yo girl by the way https://t.co/3ehEUW2bkG pic.twitter.com/msCUPRkuHO
— Bob (@dat_boy_bob) April 2, 2025