Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo lists women to avoid on social media

Renowned relationship coach, Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, has stirred conversations online after advising men to be cautious about the type of women they engage with on social media.

  

The popular preacher and relationship expert took to his Twitter page to outline specific kinds of women that men should avoid in order to maintain their peace of mind and protect themselves from potential trouble.

  

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo, relationship coach

  

In his post, Pastor Okonkwo specifically highlighted women who frequently post videos and pictures of themselves in luxurious settings—such as expensive hotels, private jets, and lavish vacations—without any visible or verifiable source of income.

  

He warned that such women could be misleading and might create unrealistic expectations for relationships.

  

Furthermore, the pastor cautioned against engaging with women who habitually share revealing or suggestive photos online, emphasizing that such behavior reflects a certain mindset that men should be wary of.

  

He also pointed out another category of women to avoid—those who claim to be highly religious and participate in multiple online prayer groups but are never committed members of a physical church.

  

Read his full post below…

  

“Kinds of ladies to avoid on social media ⚠️

  

*Those that post themselves in expensive hotels, expensive vacations, and on private jets and business class flights without any commensurate work or business.”

  

*Those who post nudity and vulgar pictures

  

*Those obsessively focused on their beauty

  

*Those that are on all prayer platforms but never an active member of a local church”

  

*Those who comment without watching the video posted or reading the caption

  

*Those very busy on gossip blogs' comment sections, arguing about very irrelevant topics

  

*Those who like or comment on every single post, especially on those useless handles

  

*The men haters/feminists that oppose every post that seems to say something positive about men.”

  

His statement has since sparked mixed reactions on social media, with some supporting his viewpoint and others criticizing it as being judgmental and biased against women.

  

Some netizens believe that his advice is a necessary wake-up call for men to be discerning in their relationships, while others argue that it unfairly generalizes certain behaviors.

  

See his post below…