Clergywoman, [b]Funke Felix-adejumo[/b], has shared some bold and candid advice to women in her recent sermon, encouraging them to appreciate their husbands whenever they satisfy them sexually in bed. In a video making the rounds on social media, the clergywoman was seen preaching to her congregation about the importance of sexual intimacy within marriage, emphasizing that it should not be shamed or suppressed by societal or cultural beliefs. She openly stated that one of the things she loves is sex, adding that it is a vital part of her life and that it played a role in the conception of her children.
In the video, Funke Felix-Adejumo discussed how, in some African cultures, women have been conditioned not to openly talk about or acknowledge their enjoyment of sex. According to her, society and traditional values have long dictated that women should not express any sexual desires or pleasures, with the risk of being labeled negatively for doing so. She rejected this notion, declaring, "Who told us that women don’t like s#x? I like s#x. If I don’t like s#x, how will I have children? You are just pretending, you like s#x." She explained that these cultural beliefs are harmful and lead to unnecessary guilt or repression among women regarding their natural sexual feelings.
Funke continued by urging women to change their perspective and embrace their sexuality without shame, especially in the context of marriage. "The first thing is to disbelief all that in your mind, otherwise you would be causing problems in your marriage," she said. She encouraged women to tell themselves that "s#x is good" and to openly express their desires and appreciation to their husbands. She added that when having sex with their husbands, women should not pretend to be saints, but instead be present in the moment, enjoying the experience fully. "When you are having s#x with your husband, don’t pretend and just be that missionary, moan! Don’t believe that African mentality. Let’s change it. The devil is using it to destroy marriages because that is the highest level of intimacy," she stressed.
The clergywoman also offered some playful yet sincere advice, suggesting that women engage more actively during intimate moments by physically engaging with their husbands, such as touching and tickling them. She emphasized the importance of verbal affirmation as well, advising women to praise their husbands after intimacy, saying, "When he finishes, tell him Good job!" This, she believes, would help foster deeper emotional connections and encourage healthier relationships in marriages.
The video has sparked conversation online, with many people sharing their thoughts on the topic, either agreeing with or questioning her views. Funke Felix-Adejumo's direct and unapologetic approach to discussing sexuality within marriage is both refreshing and controversial for some, as she challenges long-held norms surrounding women's sexual agency. However, she maintains that open communication and mutual respect in relationships are essential, especially in maintaining a healthy, fulfilling marriage.
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